Dear men, 6 signs that you are wasting your time on a lady

Dear men, love is a beautiful thing — but sometimes, the person you’re giving your heart to is not giving the same energy back. You can be serious about her, plan your future together, and still end up realizing she was never truly interested. To save yourself time, emotions, and money, here are six signs that you’re wasting your time on a lady.

1. She’s Always Too Busy for You

When a woman really likes you, she’ll make time — even if it’s just a few minutes to text or call. But if she’s always giving excuses, cancelling plans, or disappearing for days, it means her heart is somewhere else. Don’t chase what doesn’t want to stay.

2. You’re the Only One Putting in Effort

If you’re always the one calling, texting, visiting, or planning things, and she never does the same, take the hint. Love should be mutual. When you’re doing all the work alone, it’s a sign she’s not as invested as you are.

3. She Only Reaches Out When She Needs Something

Some ladies only appear when they need money, favours, or attention. The moment you help them, they vanish until the next problem comes up. That’s not love — that’s convenience. Don’t confuse being used for being loved.

4. She Doesn’t Respect You

A woman who truly loves you will respect you — your time, your words, and your presence. If she talks down to you, mocks your hustle, or embarrasses you in front of others, she doesn’t value you. Respect is a sign of love; without it, there’s nothing to build on.

5. She Avoids Talking About the Future

When you try to discuss serious plans — marriage, commitment, or long-term goals — and she keeps changing the topic or says, “Let’s just see how things go,” she’s not planning to stay. A woman who sees you in her future will naturally talk about it.

6. Your Spirit Just Feels Drained

Sometimes, your heart already knows the truth. If the relationship is full of stress, confusion, and emotional pain, you’re probably forcing something that isn’t meant to be. Real love gives peace, not constant doubt…CONTINUE MORE READING>>>