Finding husband is not easy – Lady laments

A lady has sparked conversations online after openly lamenting the difficulties of finding a suitable husband, describing the process as exhausting and frustrating.

In a viral video, the lady listed the different types of men she has encountered, explaining that each seems to come with a major flaw that makes long-term commitment difficult.

According to her, “You’ll see one, handsome, he’ll not have money. You’ll see the one that has money, no sense. You’ll see another one that you’ll think this is perfect for me, he’ll be short. You’ll see another one, ah this guy he’s so calm, handsome, once he opens his mouth like this, you’ll run away.” She added that some are fine but cannot dress well, while others are simply dirty, concluding that “to find husband is not easy.”

The lady’s honest breakdown of her experiences quickly resonated with many women who say they face similar challenges in today’s dating scene.

While some viewers sympathised with her frustration, others criticised her, accusing her of being too selective or blaming her for her situation.

The video has continued to generate debate across social media, with many users sharing their own experiences and opinions on marriage, standards, and modern relationships…CONTINUE MORE READING>>>

To find husband no easy oh – lady laments pic.twitter.com/LKJainSWUm

— ChukwuNonso✍️ (@Mazi_Chinonso1) January 9, 2026