Help! Another Man Wants To Marry My Wife!

I have a problem in my marriage.

Hmmmmmm, when my clingy wife stopped being clingy, I was happy ankasa (really). When she stopped checking on me and snooping on my phone and didn’t even care that I had a password on my phone, I said hallelujah.

To me, that was freedom but little did I know that was her way of showing love and making sure I’m doing right by her. Atigya (big issues)! Some idiot man wants to take my wife from me. This man, from their chats, has been in love with my wife for years, but she didn’t give in.

Minua (my sister), how this guy is pampering my wife and spoiling her with love and money, eh, me yamu kra hyehye me (I’m even scared). This guy wants to move mountains for my wife, but she’s the one delaying him. Eiii! How can a fellow man do this to me? I saw a video of his pen on my wife’s phone, and I feel intimidated by his size. Since then, my self-confidence has gone low koraaa. Ei, anaconda (size) ankasa.

My bubbly pregnant wife has become a shadow of herself at home. She hardly smiles, doesn’t check on me, and no longer gives me hugs and pecks. If I go out and come back at 10 o’clock kraa, she won’t flash me on my phone mpo.

But previously, she’d call me till she sees my face at home. It was a nuisance then, but now I wish… My instinct tells me she will leave me after delivery. I accept I have treated her unfairly in the past and want to do better. How do I make her forgive me and know I want us to work things out?

And before people think the pregnancy isn’t mine, it’s mine paaaa. I know for sure because of the woman I married. That guy doesn’t want my wife for just sex kɛkɛ o (only), he wants her for a wife… I am a man, and from what I have seen, I know that for sure. I want to save my marriage; please advise me.