I discovered my boyfriend intends to have a child with his ex-girlfriend after reading through his whatsApp messages

Hi readers, Why is it so hard for men to say it’s over than hurting you?

I am a very young lady who has the mindset of not getting married to a wrong man so I am really mindful on men I enter in to relationship with.

I met this good looking guy who asked me out long ago I said yes to him, he’s been really amazing and sweet at the same time but I realized his phone was a no go area.

His gallery is full of screenshot of ladies pictures, he’s always flirting with new girls from either FB or IG, I told him countless times I didn’t like that and will probably break up with him so he can fun with them since he doesn’t respect my feelings, he will do as if he has changed oo give him days he will go back to that lifestyle.

Went through his phone by mistake guess what I saw hmmm he has been seeing a lady we fight all the time about, (he initially said they were just friends) not just seeing her but takes her on dates. I am literally surprised because we are always together so how?

Apparently, when I met him I asked if he was single he said no and that his last relationship ended last year saa na oboa eiiii men hmmm.

He and the the lady he claimed she was an ex were planning of having a baby and my boyfriend insisted they have it before they marry Eiiiiiii Eny3 easy ooo,ma su saaaa eiiiii.

What shows this young guy hasn’t been having sex outside our relationship? What I don’t understand is why won’t you let me go if you don’t like me? Hmm so I am a side chick with boss chick features Boi3. 

I felt cold immediately and disappointed. He said things to ladies he has never said to me,complements I have never had from him. I never knew he could be this romantic until I checked into his phone eiiii come and see English.

I felt he was the one because of how he treated me. I know men have sex and enjoys every bit of it when they are really into you but with this my High blood pressure giver, he doesn’t really eat me from his face indicates he doesn’t enjoy it. I suggest that explain he has been enjoying himself outside the relationship. I remember he was telling me how a girl fuc.ked him

Quickly, I sent him a break up message he came and only said sorry and left.
I read that story of the man who was appreciating his wife for staying even though she caught him cheating severally, I can equally do same but my story sounds so different, how can I ignore all this ?

I guess he doesn’t love me obviously but won’t let me go. I am walking out even though it hurts .
Do you agree with me or not?
I will read all your comments and suggestions