I’ve always wanted to write something to you, but the person involved is on your page. A friend, like a sister to me, who I trust so much. I don’t allow anyone except her to touch my husband’s food because he’s a foodie. You’ll always see me with this lady wherever I go.
She often talks to my husband because he’s an ɔsɔfo (pastor). He started making statements like, “I will marry the lady in the future whether you like it or not, and I will compensate you.” I began sensing something unusual.
I confided in one of his friends who in turn told my husband, and he became furious, claiming he was just kidding. So, every time I met my friend, I would bring up topics about men marrying teo wives, and this lady always seemed okay with the idea. She is married herself but wants a divorce because her husband mistreats her. One time, I told her that I can’t cope with another woman in my marriage, and she responded, “eiiiiiiiiii. Was the man created for only you?” I informed my husband that she had said this.
We had a fight about it as usual but that day, he told me he would marry her. That was on a Monday. The following Monday, I was angry and complaining, but he knelt before me, begging that there was nothing going on between them. That it was because of how I was feeling that he was on his knees. Despite his apologies, I couldn’t shake the doubts from my mind.
The following week, I was sick, and he said he wanted the lady to come and prepare food for him. She did that. I prayed to God to reveal the truth to me, and one evening I secretly recorded their conversation. He was planning for her to accompany him to the hospital, and during the conversation, she said, “I love you,” and he replied, “I love you too.” I was deeply shaken by this discovery.
I confronted him and threw my ring at him. He begged me and the lady expressed her regret, even threatening to po!son herself if I didn’t forgive her. I’ve been talking to her to move past this. However, every Monday and Tuesday, I cry. I’ve forgiven them but can’t forget. I had a dream in which the lady was driving my husband’s new car, which only heightened my anxiety. I have a feeling that something will happen in the future. My name was even removed from the government payroll, my month of agony, and I haven’t received my salary yet.
I’m thinking it seeing a powerful man of God to clear my doubts. My main concern is what might occur in the future, given this dream. Please post this for me and provide a warning. I prefer to remain anonymous.
